These are tricky times for all of us. Every time we’re given new instructions from the government, I keep hearing the expression “this is the new normal”. But what does “normal” mean when you’ve only been on the planet for less than 60 months?
As adults, we have our life experience to inform what we do right now, but even that isn’t all that helpful at the moment. We know that we can talk to each other and make the best of our situation right now. And we can also navigate through all the conflicting, confusing information that confronts us every day.
But how can we help the youngest children work through this tricky time when even we are having trouble? How can we talk to the children as practitioners and parents and decide on the best way to approach the subject of coronavirus? Well, it all begins with the way we talk…
It’s always important to explain things to children as honestly as we can, using language that they will be able to make sense of. With that in mind, here are a few suggestions:
Right now, children may not be in their usual environment with their usual Key Person and their friends. They are likely at home more often, or all the time. This means they won’t be seeing the people they are used to seeing every day, or keeping the hours they are used to.
The youngest children will be unsure whether their setting and familiar environment still exist, and this will be stressful. In much the same way as we have family books of photographs in our setting, we can send pictures of ourselves and the setting to the children on a regular basis. We can add little updates about what we are doing, share stories and even talk about children’s programmes and familiar characters.
The children will need transition objects too. So how about creating ‘mini-me’ versions of all the staff? Just a photo on a straw or a stick that the child can keep with them to remind them that you are still there. If the children aren’t at the setting, the photos could be sent home for the parents to use. Keeping daily contract with our nurseries and settings also makes a difference.
Childcare management software like Famly have instant messaging functions, which makes this communication easy. Through daily ‘chats’ like this, children can ask questions and tell you what they’ve heard.
Being surrounded by familiar things, even if only in pictures or text, means the children will keep you in mind and won’t feel as if you’ve deserted them.
Involving families as much as possible is critical right now, and we need to work in partnership with the families at our settings. However, we must not forget the team we work with too. How each individual deals with the changes will impact on the rest of the team. The same rules apply to us – we need clear strategies and honesty to cope with what’s happening. So before any decisions are made for the setting, we need to discuss and agree on them as a team.
Please note: here at Famly we love sharing creative activities for you to try with the children at your setting, but you know them best. Take the time to consider adaptions you might need to make so these activities are accessible and developmentally appropriate for the children you work with. Just as you ordinarily would, conduct risk assessments for your children and your setting before undertaking new activities, and ensure you and your staff are following your own health and safety guidelines.